Reaching an Agreement

There are a number of ways to resolve family law issues and settle matters by agreement. Sometimes, the people involved are able to work things out themselves. Sometimes, they need help from a third party to do this. Knowing your options and exploring ways to resolve issues can be the most important thing you do after a family breakdown. The way issues are resolved can have as much impact on everyone involved as the decisions themselves.

Early dispute resolution (EDR) includes any way of resolving issues other than having a court make the decisions. EDR can be something the parties seek out themselves. In divorce cases, parties to any proceeding have a duty to try to resolve the issues through EDR. If the parties have not already tried, EDR is a required step when starting a family law court case in Saskatchewan. See Family Dispute Resolution for more information.

If you hire a lawyer to make a family law court application, they have a duty to encourage you to use EDR to resolve the issues. They must also provide you with any information they have about services that could assist you in resolving the issues.

There are a number of options you can choose from to help you resolve your issues outside of court. If you use a qualified EDR professional, you will not need to see a another one if you later ask the court to make decisions. Dispute resolution professionals will charge a fee for their services. You should discuss the cost with the person you will be hiring. How the cost will be split between the parties should also be decided before the process begins. Dispute resolution professionals must have certain qualifications. You should discuss their qualifications before choosing a dispute resolution professional.

Using early dispute resolution can increase the chance that you will be able to agree instead of asking for court orders. Trained professionals involved in early dispute resolution can also help if there has been family violence or there is an imbalance of power between the parties. If you are in either of these situations, it is very important to have the support you need to help you come to a fair agreement.

Family Matters helps families going through separation or divorce. They provide referrals to relevant services. They also provide information about the process and referrals to other sources of information. Through this program, you can receive a free three-hour session with a dispute resolution professional. You can also reach the program by calling 1.844.863.3408 or emailing familymatters@gov.sk.ca.

Parties who cannot otherwise reach an agreement may negotiate an agreement through their lawyers. Each party deals with the other through a lawyer. This can help them arrive at a settlement if they otherwise are not able to deal with each other. In the negotiation, each party must discuss with the lawyer the terms they want in an agreement.

The two lawyers communicate with one another and lay out their respective clients’ position on matters that need to be resolved. Through discussion, the lawyers look for common ground and examine areas that their clients may be willing to compromise on. Before the lawyers agree to anything, they must check with the party they represent. This process continues until an agreement is reached.

The lawyers can ensure that both parties understand their legal rights and obligations. They will also ensure that the agreement is easy to understand and enforceable. Negotiation through a lawyer is useful if one or both parties are being unrealistic about their legal obligations and rights. It can also be useful if there has been family violence or there are issues of power and control because each party’s lawyer will act as an advocate for that party. This can be more time-consuming and expensive than if the parties work out an agreement another way.